@approxinfinity They don’t think he will need a colostomy bag at least… Hopefully that proves true.
ETA: It really does help to just have a place to talk about this.
I’ve never been a big support group kinda guy but have recently started attending one and man does it help to say things to people who really understand and care. Mine is super specific to care givers/partners of cancer patients who are also parents of young kids. Seems so hyper specific but with the power of the internet there is a community out there for everyone.